tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597553681870260370.comments2017-10-28T15:44:43.049-07:00The Life SnobAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17499023419821910796noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597553681870260370.post-84003668534304923382017-10-28T15:44:43.049-07:002017-10-28T15:44:43.049-07:00Age is just a number, by now you would'be what...Age is just a number, by now you would'be what 25? i knew when i was much younger ( 16-18 i guess ) that i wanna do something big ( not for the sake of accumulating wealth ) but i didn't have any answer to questions like WHAT? HOW ? WHERE ? WHEN ? ..... so i went with the flow but never gave up on my inner voice.... recently i quit my job, work ...almost everything i was doing to give myself time in isolation and work on my ideas, create a vision and find answer to all those questions... it wasn't easy, took me 4 months ( coping with high's and low's ) trying to understand myself, what am i looking for, what's my purpose, counting on my blessings, gifts ...... i am not a good writer nor a good communicator BUT to cut short <br />"The time i quit my job, i knew i would die if i don't give myself a break and work on my ideas, my passion and work on it to make it happen " <br /><br />what other damage it could do ? you wrote about ENVY ...didn't you ? <br />why do people do that ? i think people who wanted to do something but somehow they couldn't <br />maybe it was their parent's, their friend's, spouse or just courage to leave their comfort zone..... <br />they started living life defined by those people around them. <br /><br />i won't drag it further and would conclude by this, <br /><br />" Don't live a life defined by circumstances, people around you or with all those thoughts, your dreams. Take a STOP, re-align/ Re-wire yourself, choose people who you'll matter to you and will help you achieve what you want to, because they believe in you. and Most importantly, make them grow with you so there is no room for Envy/hatred/negativity around you. Don't think to make the whole world happy but just the most important people in your life. Find your Gift you are born and blessed with and work on how you can benefit others with that" <br /><br />i have found that helping people achieve what they wish for, makes me happy, keeps me energized. Taking care of existing relationships and nurturing them will create room for new relationships and responsibilities" <br /><br />i am not a good writer but i would urge you to pick up the point from what i wrote ( i am sure you are smart enough for that ) <br /><br />Stay blessed! Adeel Tiwananoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597553681870260370.post-25064379994369476712015-11-29T21:44:34.757-08:002015-11-29T21:44:34.757-08:00Actually people are mean to others for no reason.Actually people are mean to others for no reason.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17499023419821910796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597553681870260370.post-8423539155951122015-11-29T20:17:11.508-08:002015-11-29T20:17:11.508-08:00People envy others for no reason.People envy others for no reason.Fahad Naeemhttp://lamemunosity.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597553681870260370.post-41359433849797961532015-11-22T07:38:43.959-08:002015-11-22T07:38:43.959-08:00Nice Nice Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15337430350064913351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597553681870260370.post-38734683755783147202015-11-01T00:24:00.584-07:002015-11-01T00:24:00.584-07:00Well......You aren't alone on that one.......I...Well......You aren't alone on that one.......I too am clueless about my destiny ahead...but hey!This is life........I guess faith should be strong and a person should only depend on him/herself rather than others....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597553681870260370.post-54903025004019880522015-09-27T16:21:14.789-07:002015-09-27T16:21:14.789-07:00First and foremost I am okay with criticism, as lo...First and foremost I am okay with criticism, as long as it is intellectually sound and has some basis to begin with. In the very beginning I have mentioned that I am looking at this topic in isolation and am not considering various other factors that are at play. As if I would have, then it goes far beyond the pointers you gave and would have been an utter mayhem. The whole idea of this post was over simplification actually and never did I make any vows of self-righteousness. And lastly, it was never meant to be an intellectual analysis, it was a mere (isolated) observation. I hope that eases a few of your reservations, and I shall be more peculiar next time (if I ever decide to write a post that is).Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17499023419821910796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597553681870260370.post-26076047626355299432015-09-27T10:57:52.098-07:002015-09-27T10:57:52.098-07:00Not taking you to court - just disagreeing (or rat...Not taking you to court - just disagreeing (or rather agreeing to a flaw you mentioned yourself i.e., I am not saying that's the only thing. To reduce evils like national enmities, hatred and backbiting is OVER simplification, FAIRLY misplaced, and sounds QUITE A BIT self-righteous. You see, Envy, as defined by you, stems from insecurities of the perpetrator towards the victim - whereas the above evils often root from a sense of superiority. <br /><br />Backbiting is a branch of criticism - and quite often (though not always - as envy can be ONE of the initiating factors) criticism stems from the belief that not we know better than others. That we are right, and they are wrong. We backbite with people we know to seek further assurance that our understanding, beliefs and methods are correct.<br /><br />National enmities - well that's another ball game together, which is fuelled by greed for wealth, greed for power, beliefs in self-righteousness.<br /><br />Point being - your article contains some useful points. But needs to be more broad based to stand as an intellectual analysis.<br /><br />LOL... Sounds like I am criticising. Haiderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04270788723926869314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597553681870260370.post-20073061049462618862015-07-20T02:26:34.285-07:002015-07-20T02:26:34.285-07:00👏👏Shaz Qureshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15937294361529262033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597553681870260370.post-86223108201151077802015-04-12T15:00:32.862-07:002015-04-12T15:00:32.862-07:00Itni mushkil english mai likha hay urdu mai likhoItni mushkil english mai likha hay urdu mai likhoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com